This is a documentation of the journey of a hockey mom and author (children's book, The Puck Hog)
Thursday, June 25, 2015
Thursday, June 11, 2015
Dialing It Down for the Summer
You've
noticed some skill in your young hockey player's game and you're thinking
-- hoping, really -- a free ride to a Division One college program might be
possible. So you consider having your youngster play year-round, focusing
only on hockey. You might be doing your child more hard than good.
“It’s been proven over and over that cross training can be helpful
for all sports. Let the player have fun, explore and find their way. Especially
when they’re young,” says Syracuse Mountain Hockey coach Scott Montagna, whose
son played D1 Hockey. If the goal is to play D1, there will come a time
when you’ll need to invest a serious amount of time and effort into
training. “There are very few naturals in hockey,” he told me.
The father of a college hockey star and NHL draft pick, who asked
to remain anonymous for this article, says his son always played
several sports growing up. When the time came to get serious, he still
took time away from the rink. “In the spring and summer, we would cut back to
one or maybe twice a week," he said. "The kids need a break mentally
and physically from the intense AAA schedule. The parents need a break, too.”
Burnout can be a factor and that’s when knowing your kid comes
into play. “I’ve seen kids who will skate two to three hours a day if they can
and they are bummed when their parents make them leave," says
Montagna. "The most important thing is you can’t force it on your child.”
“An athlete’s most valued instinct is desire. There’s no way a
child can keep optimal motivation for a sport if they’re playing 12 months a
year. It becomes a job,” says Oswego ,
NY coach Bill Cahill, whose
daughter plays four sports.
Veteran hockey coach John Katko, from Camillus , NY ,
encourages his sons to play other sports too. “To me, the more sports you
can play the better. You develop different muscles, coordination, skills with
different sports, which in the end makes you a better athlete,” he said.
Keep
in mind that the numbers are against your child. A 1985 study of all
30,000 10 years olds playing hockey in Ontario found that
just 147 -- about 1 in every 200 youth players -- made it to D1
or juniors, and just 32 of those ever played a shift in the
NHL. Only 15 played more than one season and only six played long enough
to get an NHL pension.
And
one final reminder from the father of that college hockey star and NHL
prospect: “The thing I always tell people is I am raising a person, not a
hockey player. A sport is just a tool. Using more sports means I have more
tools to raise the best person possible.”
Friday, May 1, 2015
From Rags to Riches; Hockey Moms Reflect on Journey to Nationals
by Jennifer Terzini
Liverpool, N.Y.
Of all
the sports my children have played, hockey has always been my favorite one to
watch. Sure, it's freezing cold (even when we play in August), and we often travel far, play early or late, but it’s the one sport that has always
captivated my attention. I don’t understand the intricacies of the game – it is
not important for me to know. What I know is that my son loves it and not only
has he become a better hockey player in all these years, but it has also
contributed to shaping him into a fine young man.
We have
been blessed with talented, caring, passionate coaches throughout the years
that teach not only hockey skills, but life lessons as well. Whispers of
Nationals started early for this “rags to riches” team. This was Kyle’s first
year playing for this organization, and kneww many of these boys only from competing against them throughout the years. In his mind, he had something to prove – his ego was at work. We grew to love the players, and their families. While it was always a long shot, Nationals was still out there as an attainable goal. Whispers turned to talk.
After
qualifying for Nationals at States, we had less than three weeks to make these
boys dream happen. Blood, sweat and tears were shed to make this a reality for
them. Talk turned to action.
As it turns
out, we had a pretty amazing place to play. Dallas, Texas is a place neither
Kyle nor I had been before. It’s a beautiful city that provided the backdrop
for memories that I think both of us will carry with us forever.
to family
in a 70 game season. Hockey is watching your child share experiences with young
men he will remember and tell stories about well into his adulthood. Hockey is
seeing a passion and fire ignited in your son when he skates onto the ice that
is unparalleled anywhere else in his life. Hockey is pride, fear, excitement
and love!
“This is
your moment. You’re meant to be here.” – Herb Brooks
Living the Dream
by Pam Bianchi
Liverpool, NY
Last month my son Tommy’s 16U hockey team, Center State
Stampede, traveled to Plano, Texas to compete in the 2015 Toyota-USA Hockey
Youth Nationals. The days leading up to the tournament were exciting! When we
arrived at the Dr. Pepper Star Center Ice Arena, the reaction was one of
amazement - to finally be at the place we had only seen photos of online. All
of the banners were hanging from the ceiling displaying each of the teams
across the U.S. that would be representing their state (even Alaska). Only two
teams from each state were selected, so it was quite an honor for Center State
to be there representing New York State. Us Moms quickly found our team’s
banner and took pictures of it!
On the morning of the first game, the line to buy Nationals
apparel was long, but devoted hockey moms waited to get items for their sons,
siblings, spouses and even Grandparents! As the anticipated first game
approached, the lights on the rink were bright, the mood was
positive, and the team was ready to go! Games were going on all around us, and
just to watch teams from all over the U.S. experience hockey at such a high
level was surreal. The other 16U teams were very good and it was impressive to
watch such great hockey being played by young teens. As I watched the first
game, I realized that these teams were the best of the best in their state for
a reason. It was obvious how skilled they were. The skating was fast, the puck
was cycled quickly and the players competed hard right up until the end of each
game. No one gave up; everyone wanted to win, and it showed. Each player gave
it their all.Another apparent fact was that if just one mistake was made, the opponent quickly capitalized on it. In previous season games, Center State could usually recover from a mistake and answer back with a goal to even the score. But against another state ranked team, it was not so easy. Center State lost its first game to Connecticut, by only two goals, and its second to Texas, by only one goal, but won the third game against Orange County, California’s number one team in their state. It was a hard fought, physical game right up until the end, and Center State won by only one goal. A California Mom told me after the game that Orange County had lost only one game all season, at states, and this was only their second loss all year!
Orange County was ranked 11th in the nation! Many parents and spectators said that it was the best youth hockey game they had ever seen! After the game, several of the California parents came over to shake our hands and tell us how good our team was. The other hockey moms from California were very nice and complimented our boys. Center State won against the most challenging team it faced, yet did not have enough points to advance to the semi-finals.
Overall, the trip to Nationals was amazing! To be able to
hold its own against such tough competition is something for the team to be
proud of! It was a wonderful experience for my son, Tommy, the Center State 16U
Team, and their families. The memories for the boys and us Hockey Moms will
last a lifetime.
Watching from A Distance
by Suzanne Kozikoski
Liverpool, NY
A hockey mom's perspective from another state is 100
times more nerve wracking than actually being at the game but when you have
another child that has activities during the same week as Nationals you have to
stay home while sending your husband and son on their way. I had some great
hockey moms who did go, because you can't always rely on your husband to keep
you up to date on games and keep you posted with pictures, that kept me
informed with updates throughout the game and throughout the day.
As a goalie mom I think I see the game differently than that of a player mom. I watch the other team, do they have the puck, are they in our zone, do we have defense? Did my son just let in a soft goal, do we have the defense ready, or was the goal just a damn good goal that the other team got on us? I also watch for shots on goal, are we getting as many shots on goal as the other team or is it lopsided? With that being said you can't have parents sending you all that information minute by minute because they are watching their child and game. So you are kept in the dark about that, but thank God are kept up on the score and what period we are in.
So even though I was being kept updated throughout the games by hockey mom, Pam Bianchi, and my husband, it was very hard, nerve wracking and at times tear producing, which was not good because I was at work for that one. I would have loved to have gone down and watch my son play at Nationals, but I would not have changed the quality time I spent with my daughter. It was a whirlwind of emotions not only while they were in Texas, but even before getting them to Texas with States.
You can bet that when we go to Nationals next season, I will be going and will I be nervous? ABSOLUTELY but I will be watching the game sitting where I always sit on our side, right on the blue line without moving.
As a goalie mom I think I see the game differently than that of a player mom. I watch the other team, do they have the puck, are they in our zone, do we have defense? Did my son just let in a soft goal, do we have the defense ready, or was the goal just a damn good goal that the other team got on us? I also watch for shots on goal, are we getting as many shots on goal as the other team or is it lopsided? With that being said you can't have parents sending you all that information minute by minute because they are watching their child and game. So you are kept in the dark about that, but thank God are kept up on the score and what period we are in.
So even though I was being kept updated throughout the games by hockey mom, Pam Bianchi, and my husband, it was very hard, nerve wracking and at times tear producing, which was not good because I was at work for that one. I would have loved to have gone down and watch my son play at Nationals, but I would not have changed the quality time I spent with my daughter. It was a whirlwind of emotions not only while they were in Texas, but even before getting them to Texas with States.
You can bet that when we go to Nationals next season, I will be going and will I be nervous? ABSOLUTELY but I will be watching the game sitting where I always sit on our side, right on the blue line without moving.
Wednesday, April 1, 2015
On Thin Ice? How to Boost Youth Hockey Numbers
Is your youth hockey program battling to reverse a down-turn in participation? We're here to help. Behind every good fighter, is a good trainer. In your corner, is skilled and seasoned
hockey mom, Kristin Fleet Haag, CPA Treasurer, with Rome Youth Hockey
Association. Rome's program has seen a remarkable turnaround, thanks to a strategy of working as a team to grow their teams.
How to Grow The Game
By Kristin Fleet Haag
We are located in
Back in 2008-2009 our City
completed a $3.0 million renovation on our facility - the Bill Fleet Rink at
the John F. Kennedy Civic Arena. Shortly
after that our numbers declined pretty drastically.
Our learn to skate or
initiation program numbers decreased from over 100 skaters to just 60
skaters. Of course, that is the feeder
program to our higher levels. We knew we
had to take action.
I joined our board in 2012,
when my son who was going to be a second year Pee Wee, was not going to have a
travel team to play on. By the time the
season actually rolled around, there was no house team either. My youngest boy had just started in the learn
to skate program as well. At that point,
I knew I needed to do something. I
joined the board. My dad, who is a
lifetime member, also was actively involved.
We held meetings with community members and hockey folks to brain storm
how to get our numbers up.
Keys to Victory
* Hired a marketing firm and launched a print
and media campaign. It was expensive
(around $5,000), but well worth the investment.
Our IP numbers grew back to over 100 that year. We continue to run the
campaign each year. We used our hometown
NHL/AHL Stars Tim and Tom Sestito in the commercials for us.
* Worked with our City to reduce our ice
fees. My first year - I negotiated a
temporary reduction. The second year, I
negotiated a permanent reduction. We
went from an average of $105 per hour to $85 per hour. If our ice fees are lower, we can lower our
reg fees, and increase volume....
* We sold ourselves to the community. We started attending community events
(ie. Honor America Day Parade, Home Show, Dog
Show). Also, we made our ice slots more
working parent friendly. Some teams used
to practice at 6:00 am before school. We
rearranged the ice slots so that all practices started after 5:00 pm. We also sold our great coaching staff!
* My second year, we wanted a better handle on
our numbers, so we offered an early registration discount at 25-30%
savings. My third year, we reduced even
further. We are now arguably the lowest
price shop in town...Squirt and up are at $425, Mites at $215, and Learn to
Skate at $160. This year we launched our
online registration process.
* Tournaments - we invested time and sweat
equity into these. My first year on
there was no Mite Tournament. Last year
we hosted a Mite Tournament with 18 teams, this year we had 26 teams with over
310 kids.
* We rebranded ourselves. Changed our colors, logo, and new jerseys (we don't
charge our members). One of our board
members wrote a grant. He secured
$22,000 for the purchase of new
jerseys .
* This year we purchased cross-ice dividers,
partnering with our City. Also, we
applied for USA Hockey's grow the game grant, which I believe we will secure
the funding.
We are a 501C3 which is
pretty important when looking to secure grant funding.
Best of luck to you and your
organization!
Tuesday, February 17, 2015
Monday, February 2, 2015
How to Show Your Hockey Team Spirit
First Place Spirit Award
There was a fun twist to our latest tournament in Glens Falls. In addition to the regular competition among teams, we all got a chance to compete for spirit bragging rights, Our girls placed in the Skills Competition and we cheered them on like they were rock stars!
Check out what a few brainstorming sessions and a little creativity can do.
There was a fun twist to our latest tournament in Glens Falls. In addition to the regular competition among teams, we all got a chance to compete for spirit bragging rights, Our girls placed in the Skills Competition and we cheered them on like they were rock stars!
Check out what a few brainstorming sessions and a little creativity can do.
Thursday, January 22, 2015
Hockeyville, USA Closer Than You Think
Being a hockey fan in Syracuse, New York means you're always cheering in the shadow of Orange Nation. With basketball and football predominately in the spotlight on the college and high school levels, at times you may feel as if you belong to some sort of secret society. Rarely do our high school hockey teams make the Friday night sports highlights and sadly teams are contracting. Soccer, baseball and lacrosse get far more ink and attention than our great sport of hockey.
But walk into any ice rink in Central New York during a high school game, or on a weekend during a Pee Wee or even a Mite match, and you might think you have just walked into Hockeyville, USA. There is dedication, commitment and passion that would rival any sports atmosphere you would find on a basketball court or football field.
So, here is our chance, Central New York hockey fans, to show our pride and passion by sharing our stories and nominating our local rinks to be named the first-ever Kraft Hockeyville USA. Ten
communities will have the chance to win thousands in arena upgrades, while one
will win the grand prize – hosting an NHL®
Pre-Season game televised live on NBCSN and
$150,000 in arena upgrades.
You'll need to nominate your rink before March 18,
2015. See details below.
Sure, we Central New York hockey fans can still bleed Orange, but we've got ice in our veins and hockey in our hearts!
THE PUCK DROPS
TODAY: KRAFT, NHL®, NHLPA, NBC
SPORTS GROUP AND USA HOCKEY SEARCH FOR AMERICA’S MOST PASSIONATE HOCKEY
COMMUNITIES TO FIND KRAFT HOCKEYVILLETM USA
One U.S. Community
Will Win Opportunity to Host NHL® Pre-Season Game Televised on NBCSN, $150,000
in Arena Upgrades and Coveted Title as First-Ever “Kraft
HockeyvilleTM USA”
NORTHFIELD, Ill. –
January 1, 2015 – Announced today, at the 2015 Bridgestone NHL Winter Classic®
featuring the Chicago Blackhawks® and Washington Capitals® broadcast on NBC, the
puck officially dropped for Kraft HockeyvilleTM USA – the
search for America’s most passionate hockey community. Uniting an all-star
roster of partners including the National Hockey League Players’ Association
(NHLPA), National Hockey League (NHL®), NBC Sports Group, and USA Hockey,
Kraft’s award-winning, Canadian-born HockeyvilleTM program has
expanded into the U.S. for the first time to help build better hockey
communities across the country. Beginning today, hockey communities across the U.S. can vie for the
esteemed title of “Kraft HockeyvilleTM USA” and enter for a chance to win the grand prize of hosting
an NHL® Pre-Season game televised live on
NBCSN and $150,000 in arena
upgrades.
“Seeing all these
passionate hockey fans cheering on their team in the brisk winter air reminds me
of the way so many of us fell in love with the sport,” said Dino Bianco,
Executive Vice President and President, Kraft Beverages. “Fans like this
coming together for their shared love of hockey is what inspired us to launch
Kraft Hockeyville in the U.S. and celebrate the unity that hockey brings
to communities across the country.”
Kraft
also drafted a
friend – NHL® legend and NBC Sports analyst, Jeremy Roenick – to help spread the
word across the country. “Growing up in Boston, hockey was a way of life for
children and families, and it brought together my community in a way that
nothing else could. I wouldn’t be who I am today without the lessons I learned
and the experiences I gained at Pilgrim Arena from coaches like my dad, Wally
Roenick, Paul Kramer, and Arthur Valicenti. Kraft
HockeyvilleTM USA will help communities keep these traditions alive,
and that is something I am excited to be a part of working with
Kraft.”
How Kraft
HockeyvilleTM USA Works
Like a hockey game,
Kraft HockeyvilleTM USA has three periods. In the first
period, communities across the country are encouraged to enter by sharing unique
stories about their local rink, teams, hockey spirit and passion and submitting
their nominations now through March 18, 2015, at www.KraftHockeyville.com, where complete
contest rules and nomination applications are available.
Ten community
finalists will be chosen to kick off the second action-packed period, which
includes three rounds of public voting:
· Round 1 (April
14-16, 2015) – Top four communities chosen to move on to the next round;
remaining six each receive $20,000 toward arena upgrades.
- Round
2 (April 21-22, 2015) – Top two finalists selected; remaining two each receive
$40,000 toward arena upgrades.
- Round
3 (April 27-29, 2015) – One community will emerge as the first-ever
“Kraft HockeyvilleTM USA”; runner-up will receive $75,000
toward arena upgrades.
In the final
period, the winning community will be announced – on May 2, 2015 – and receive
the grand prize of the chance to host an NHL®
Pre-Season game televised on NBCSN and receive
$150,000 in arena upgrades from Kraft.
Kraft
HockeyvilleTM USA is meant to not only ignite a passion for hockey in
America, but also bring a renewed sense of pride to communities. Since launching
in Canada in 2006, Kraft HockeyvilleTM has positively impacted
43 communities with more than $1.6 million donated in arena upgrades.
Kraft also hopes that its diverse portfolio of products will help unite
hockey fans in their celebrations of the sport and their communities. The
campaign will celebrate consumers’ excitement around a variety of iconic
Kraft brands, including A1, Bulls-Eye BBQ Sauce, Cracker
Barrel, Jell-O, Kraft Mac & Cheese, Kraft Mayo, Kraft
Natural Cheese, Kraft Salad Dressings, Kraft Singles,
Maxwell House, Miracle Whip, Oscar Mayer, Philadelphia, Planters, Stove Top
and Velveeta.
For contest rules,
information on nominating your community and complete program details, visit
www.KraftHockeyville.comwww.KraftHockeyville.com. Kraft
HockeyvilleTM USA can also be found at
Facebook.com/KraftHockeyvilleUSA and on Twitter (@HockeyvilleUSA). You can join
the conversation using #HockeyvilleUSA.
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